Some time ago an acquaintance of mine who lived in Goa for a time told me that the Goan locals are unfriendly towards outsiders who buy property in Goa with the intention to live or settle there. He complained that this was because of the North Indians. He said North Indian people are disdainful towards […]
Category Archives: Self Help
Have I misused my life
I mentioned in my earlier blog that people are mocking me and gloating over my misfortunes. My being single, a dependent and not having a career or social life. Being mocked is not pleasant. It hurts. The natural desire is to hit back. Link to the earlier blog is below: So I thought I would […]
This will help National Security
Sex education will do more than just help national security. It will also help the economy. That is not quite accurate. A sane sex education – for large number of citizens – can transform and even revolutionize the economy and national security. What is the rationale for this statement? It is simple. A sane sex […]
Hide This
This blog contains some advice that is unconventional and some people may even find it offensive. Be warned. It is this. In my earlier blog I had mentioned that acceptance of the sex urge is necessary for good relations with people and also for your intellectual development. I will not present very long arguments. Regarding […]
How to Improve Relations with your Spouse
I suppose the headline got your attention. What I am advocating will do more than just improve your marital relations. It will help you intellectually and will result in your being a happier person and a person who is well in his own skin. From a Google search: The French phrase for being well in […]
Am I Educated?
You will look at the headline and you may ask yourself, “What sort of a question is that? Here I am, expensively educated at one of the premier schools in NCR and with a professional degree – Chartered Accountancy – and I am asking if I am educated. On top of that I have been […]
I Salute my Family – With Reservations
Being an unconventional person in a traditional society like India causes inconvenience to his or her community and family as well. In this blog I will be discussing the financial risk that comes along with having a maladjusted person in your family. This is just anecdotal evidence. But it explains why people did not want […]
On Empathy – Some Comments
I have been lacking in empathy pretty much all my life. It is only in the last 5 or 6 years that I have become somewhat empathetic. I am 61 years old now and that means that for about 55 years I was severely handicapped by not having empathy. I used to be very critical […]
Criticizing my Elders
I am, in this blog, going to criticize my elders. Since I am publishing it for the whole world to read I am doing so in public. I need to do so without causing offence. So I thought I would just give some quotes from books I have read that I thought my elders can […]
Why I am happy to be a Recluse
The meaning of the word recluse is: a person who lives alone and who maintains very little contact with other people or society OR a religious person who lives a life away from other people and society Both meanings apply to me to some extent. I have little contact with people and I take spirituality […]