I mentioned in my earlier blog that people are mocking me and gloating over my misfortunes. My being single, a dependent and not having a career or social life. Being mocked is not pleasant. It hurts. The natural desire is to hit back. Link to the earlier blog is below: So I thought I would […]
Category Archives: Self Help
This will help National Security
Sex education will do more than just help national security. It will also help the economy. That is not quite accurate. A sane sex education – for large number of citizens – can transform and even revolutionize the economy and national security. What is the rationale for this statement? It is simple. A sane sex […]
Hide This
This blog contains some advice that is unconventional and some people may even find it offensive. Be warned. It is this. In my earlier blog I had mentioned that acceptance of the sex urge is necessary for good relations with people and also for your intellectual development. I will not present very long arguments. Regarding […]
How to Improve Relations with your Spouse
I suppose the headline got your attention. What I am advocating will do more than just improve your marital relations. It will help you intellectually and will result in your being a happier person and a person who is well in his own skin. From a Google search: The French phrase for being well in […]
Am I Educated?
You will look at the headline and you may ask yourself, “What sort of a question is that? Here I am, expensively educated at one of the premier schools in NCR and with a professional degree – Chartered Accountancy – and I am asking if I am educated. On top of that I have been […]
I Salute my Family – With Reservations
Being an unconventional person in a traditional society like India causes inconvenience to his or her community and family as well. In this blog I will be discussing the financial risk that comes along with having a maladjusted person in your family. This is just anecdotal evidence. But it explains why people did not want […]
On Empathy – Some Comments
I have been lacking in empathy pretty much all my life. It is only in the last 5 or 6 years that I have become somewhat empathetic. I am 61 years old now and that means that for about 55 years I was severely handicapped by not having empathy. I used to be very critical […]
Criticizing my Elders
I am, in this blog, going to criticize my elders. Since I am publishing it for the whole world to read I am doing so in public. I need to do so without causing offence. So I thought I would just give some quotes from books I have read that I thought my elders can […]
Why I am happy to be a Recluse
The meaning of the word recluse is: a person who lives alone and who maintains very little contact with other people or society OR a religious person who lives a life away from other people and society Both meanings apply to me to some extent. I have little contact with people and I take spirituality […]
What I have gained from books I did not understand
I used to do a lot of mindless reading when I was young. Mindless reading meaning: Much of this was pure escapism. I did not want to face up to the demons within me. I had psychological issues and lacked friends and company and so kept compulsively busy reading and walking. Now you may think […]