My mother suffered a fall this New Year’s eve and fractured her hip bone. Luckily the joints were not affected. While she was lying on her hospital bed after her successful surgery she was feeling low and depressed. I think she was blaming herself for not being alert enough to avoid the accident. There was […]
Author Archives: nikhilmg
Accepting your Mental Ailment
If my own experience is any indication then you may have difficulty in accepting that you are suffering from depression (or any other mental ailment). I would not like to go too much into specifics regarding the events that led to my being diagnosed with schizophrenia. I had some family troubles and (what else) some […]
Tips for a good Career
I made pretty much all the mistakes that anybody can make as far as my career was concerned. That being the case you might think that I can’t possibly give sound advice on how to succeed in your career since I have not been successful myself. But I know what mistakes I made and I […]
How I proved the insurers wrong
I remember applying for an insurance policy about 20 years ago. The policy was rejected and I got my money back. The insurers did not want to risk their money on my survival. I had disclosed to them that I was suffering from schizophrenia. And this was for the piddling sum of Rs 1 lac. […]
The importance of a Meaningful Life
I suffer from Schizophrenia. Before I was able to accept the fact that I was suffering from a mental ailment I went through a period of denial when I refused to accept my condition. This caused me an enormous amount of distress. I went through periods of black depression, mood swings, rage, irritability and more. […]
Pursuing Excellence
Why do I persist with meditation? It has been about 20 years since I attended my first Vipassana course. The instructors require you to meditate 2 hours daily and attend one 10 day course every year. All of which I haven’t done. I had what I call a mystical experience in the year 2006. Extraordinary […]
The Best Self Help Books
I spend some time every week answering questions on Quora. For those of you who have not heard of quora.com, it is a question answer site which can give you good guidance if you have any questions you need answered. Quora has been funded by about US$ 225 million by private investors. It is a […]
Having Life more abundantly
This website was supposed to be about my insights and experiences but for most part I am writing about the insights of people whose books I have read. It is not surprising because it is not easy to come up with a life changing or earth-shaking insight on schedule – once or twice every week […]
Here’s how to train yourself (or somebody else) to become a Genius
In this blog post I would like to write about a book that I haven’t as yet read. The book is Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise by Anders Ericsson and Robert Pool. Ericsson is a researcher and a scholar who has devoted his career to answering the question – What’s the best […]
The Importance of Money
How important is money in your life? Here is a passage from the book Of Human Bondage by Somerset Maugham. The book is an acknowledged classic and has been praised as a work of genius. Pick up a copy of the book. Despite being a classic it is easy reading and entertaining and it is […]